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Originally Posted by llafitte93
I know everyone has different preferences when it comes to therapists, but I suppose it doesn't hurt to see if there's a common expectation for those of us with BPD. So here it goes!
What are your expectations of your therapist working with your BPD? Is there anything you fear going into counseling? I'd just like some insight as an aspiring counselor. 
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I will see my psych next week and I look forward to this. We are upping my mood stabilizer, as I can only take a tiny bit of antidepressant. I will ask him to refer me to a therapist in case I get into any trouble in my daily living. I had a wonderful free therapist for 4 mos. when I had PTSD. I will be forever grateful to her. I had a psychologist for a few months but he was asleep most of the time, a very old fellow, too old (77). The wonderful free therapist referred me to a couple of counselors but they did not work out, a big joke. I have written the following about a bad therapist I had for a long time. When I left, I did not say goodbye to her. You can guess what her last words were to me!
THE SORRY THERAPIST
I’m sorry, so sorry
I apologize
I’m sorry for all of
Your misfortunes
I’m so sorry, so very sorry
I’m sorry I’m a therapist
‘Cause I’m a sorry one
I’m sorry I exist
As I cannot help you
At all
All I can do is say
I’m sorry
Over and over
And over and over
I’m so sorry.
Oh, so sorry.
I’m sorrreeeee.