Update: I received a message from him a few days after this post' asking "if I was still upset." As I was in a bad place at the time and didnt really know what I could say, I just didn't respond.Eventually, after talking to someone who said that by saying nothing, I am in fact saying a lot..I decided to respond.I said that "upset" was no the adjective I would use, and said that I had been in a rather bad place emotionally( depression).

Guess what?Absolutely NO response from him AT ALL, AND....he blocked me on a social network site.To say that I was stunned is an understatement.No word of explanation, nothing.

Suppose that is that.I will never get the answers I wanted, but I sure know how the land lies!!