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Originally Posted by Big Mama
Wife22, thank you for your continued support. I really don't know how this marriage is going to progress.
Trust is certainly earned and I am extremely sensitive for obvious reasons (just not obvious to H). He has not reached the point yet where he is trust worthy. Will he ever, I don't know. Will I ever trust again, I don't know. But I am working on it as hard as I can and only time will tell.
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Man are like kids who need constant reassurance and attention , otherwise they get into trouble. And like kids they are selfish in getting what they want.
Today I suddenly understood with sharp clarity that man/people in general feel more relaxed next to confident appearing peer . Their approach and mood changes when they see the confidence ,even if it is fake ,even H was more eager to comply/see my point .just like kids if you give them an option they twist you for more ,but give them confident hug with reassurance of your love -they deal better
Hope it helps
Marriage can survive if both parties ad working on keeping the happiness alive,
How long the marriage can go on is difficult to say,it depends how long you both will be willing to hold up
As for support-isn't that the reason we chose this site?anytime
You are in my prayers too