Yeah not fair mate is it. I know i could offer a woman a lot. I've got my own house, money, own teeth. interesting if somewhat quirky personality., lots of love to give etc etc. Most ( i'd guess 95%- works both ways though ) dont look beyond the physical first appearance and trying to find the other 5% is like finding a needle in a haystack. Still it's as much their loss as it is mine cos i think i'm a great guy but hey im 57 so wont have too much longer before im not here at all danke Gott.