If I could ask a polite question....do you have a crush on yourself?
When you love yourself first it always shows...this shines through to people around you. You show an air off confidence and love for yourself that makes you attractive to others.

When you act in a tertiary manner in relationship, as with a crush, people will not believe you are seriously interested in engaging them. A crush is not a genuine desire for a relationship, but a fascination or admiration for someone. Don't you want a relationship as opposed to a crush?