Thread: I hate myself
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Old Nov 04, 2013, 10:32 PM
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Originally Posted by Illegal Toilet View Post
1. My voice.
2. My intelligence
3. my appearance
4. my hands
5. my lack of skill at anything
6. my depressive mind
7. my lack of flexibility or ability to come up with new ideas or even phrases

That's seven to begin with.
hi there
ok,so no one is born with all the positive traits
voice is manly,what else you need,the intonation would depend on your mood and attitude
you are positively intelligent judging by posts and replies,you have a good insight into situation of others
beauty is in the eyes of beholder
skills are honed in time,takes practice
not many people have hands ready for modeling(only few as a matter of fact)
flexibility is a matter of attitude along with depressive mood:sure no one of us chose to be depressed,there is definite chemical imbalance and genetic predisposition,but triggering conditions can be managed by attitude too.i have read somewhere (do not remember where): "If you can not change the situation,change your attitude toward it" Easy to say,but for me it worked better then just feeling sorry for myself,and surrounding people feeling the same to me.
I felt it today very clearly; I was in a good mood and suddenly everyone was eager to approach me and talk to me (just because I looked confident)
So,you are unique,smart person who has considerable amount of potential waiting to be unearthed. true friend/partner looks beyond the facade to find a soul,which you have plenty to offer
do not despair
Good luck