Okay, its a long story, but I'll try to make it short.

There's a guy that I love very much, and we're kind of together. I have relationship anxiety issues, so we took a break for a while, but I still love him. He's a great guy, and he'd be awesome to spend the rest of my life with, but I'm just not sure he's "the one." I'm a lot younger than he is too, so its a little weird sometimes, but overall, its good.

Here's where it gets complicated. There's another guy that I am very attracted to. He is sexy, and we get along very well. I hadn't really considered him as an option before (he's even older than the other guy), but he started flirting with me and telling me he wants me. I want him too.... Thing is, he's married.

So.... what do I do? I've been (harmlessly) flirting with Guy 2, but I really do love Guy 1 (in a less sexual way). I guess I know that things with Guy 2 wouldn't work out, but its a possibility I sort of want to explore. But I don't want to lose Guy 1 in the process.

Any advice? (I'm guessing the majority of the responses will be "Don't mess with a married man".... And they'll probably be right.) Thanks everyone!