wife22, very true, understanding, sense of humor, warmth, that is what women look for. Looks fade in all of us, unfortunately. Our hair falls out, our teeth fall out, we get fuzzy in paces that don't need to be fuzzy, but warmth and love never fade.

I personally have a very good male friend who is very, very large. 400 lbs and balding. He is not model material by any means. He smiles, he is happy, he has values, and he's kind. He has farm boy inteigence which beats book smarts any day. That is what makes a person, not looks.

IT I wouldn't worry about looks, hands, intelligence, and physical things. That all fades anyway. Ever seen a gorgeous 90 year old that had all there memory and all there hair, most likely not. But sometimes they seem to be madly in love with there spouse. Looks mean nothing.