Right now Im stressed and confused. My husband and I have two children and where together for 6 years basically.

He moved out a year ago after months and months of us fighting and me being depressed because he didn't have a job for three years because he wouldn't even look.

He finally went back with his parents. Because he was told to find a job or leave. After a year with that ultimatum and him only filling out three job applications in a whole year I gave up.

Now a year later we are still not divorced. I'm having trouble moving on, I dont know how to proceed. I can't afford a divorce attorney right now, I'm sort of dating someone, and I just dont know what to do........

On a positive note I have discovered things I had forgotten I enjoy because my husband wouldn't allow me to do them. Like spend time with my friends, paint, play games, run, decorate. And generally enjoy life.

What would you do now if you where me?