I'm sorry and that now is not the best time to make major changes, however, his emotional abuse is not going to help you get better. Would he consider going to counseling wth you? Somehow I doubt he would be open to that but it's a shot. You really need to look at this relationship and see if it is worth the anxiety and criticism you are getting. If you have other options of a place to stay you might be better off without someone who chooses not to understand how ill you are and that it is real.