Albert ...did you know in Japan they are having some luck with virtual girlfriends?

I say that because expecting that there be no big deals made about silly non issues... is not going to happen. What one person finds silly another person does not. Big deals you make might seem silly to them too. Life isn't a fairy tale.

You have planned out the whole thing down to when you move in together, better show her this plan upfront. She may have other ideas about her future. It's not a natural progression when you plan it all in advance. This is your... in a perfect world where I get exactly what I want plan. So be sure to leave some room for flexibility. Be sure to leave some room for their ideas, and room for humanity.

Moving in together doesn't equal more trust. It equals shared living space, split expenses etc. Trust doesn't come with a rental agreement. My bf and I do not live together and have no problems "hooking up" all the time. We also have great trust. Living together can create even bigger silly non issue problems, best to expect this to not be a perfect ride and not a guarentee of added trust.