Oh, ptang! Brave man. I think you look like a lot of fun. And you are NOT ugly. You look like you have lots of funny stories to tell, and you have twinkly eyes. Hopefully someone will come across it who has slightly more depth than a thimble----sheesh, people can be so cruel (especially thoise with no clue!!!).
I'm in Canada---so I don't know what POF stands for. But if you give me a little time, I could cast around & try to find it.
One solid hug for admiration. ((((hugggg))))