Hey, Our society is so sex crazed now, people think it's practically a right of transistion to lose their virginity. I knew some friends in highschool who made a pact to lose their virginity before graduation, but now it seems kids are losing their virginity earlier and earlier- and I think it's sad. MOst of them aren't emotionally mature enough yet (say like age 12) I didn't lose my virginity until I was 18, and even then, I don't know if I was ready. Don't have a one night stand to 'get it out of the way' There's not anything wrong with that, but I'm sure you'll regret it. Or, you could always find a boy you're age who's also a virgin and start dating- their might be a virgin dating website where you could find someone in your area. But anyway. I'm sure the more you have experience dating, the more you'll feel comfortable and find someone to actually start a real relationship with and things will progress naturally.