Hmm, It sounds like maybe you would benefit from a change of scenery? It sounds like your little town is full of a bunch of inconsiderate a-holes.
Just my opinion. From what it sounds like, you don't giver yourself enough credit and are too hard on yourself.
A move might do you good- like a breath of fresh air- Starting a new leaf and meeting new people might be a great idea for you.
But don't try to have everyone like you. No. Jut find fun activities that you enjoy and you can perhaps make friends with others that way. But don't try too hard, that scares some people. I know, easier said than done. Anyway, I hope I've been helpful. You sound like a nice person. '