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Originally Posted by granite1
yes I did talk some .she was again not having anything to do with my being silent .there was a lot said but basically at one point she said my refusal to talk is my wanting her to talk for me but that I need to be the one to work out things and she has faith that I will be able to figure it out.this was her response to me saying I have no idea what she wants me to say
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My T did the same thing...so I would just babble about whatever and next thing you know I was spilling my guts. Maybe she is just trying to "open" that door to see if you will just start spilling it all. I found it easier to talk with a pillow in front of me, like a barrier between us and I also loked at the floor and fiddled with something in my hands to keep me away and ditracted from over thinking the talking.