I'm not sure what kind of reply you are looking for so forgive me if I say the wrong thing. You are a very desireable, attractive and successful person based on your description of yourself. Yet, you judge yourself as inferior based on one man't reaction. Who says his opinion is worth anything? Who says you would not have rejected him if you got together another time? You have a lot to offer anyone who values your accomplishments. Don't let this bozo define you. He is nothing.