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Originally Posted by Le gra go deo
It is an interesting and tempting looking lifestyle, but no, to risky, fear of contracting a disease is like an angry 800 pound gorilla to me, It's much better if I just don't put my self in a situation where that could happen, but I have two friends that are and it ended up costing both of them there marriage.  |
That's why the rules are really, really important. For swinging to work for a couple they have to be very sure they communicate what is okay for each of them and then be willing to make double sure they don't cross any boundaries that their partner set.
If all that works out, then it can work for some couples.