Bubsmiley...
When you let your H take the dogs, did you discuss what would happen upon your return? Did you ever discuss the pets in your divorce agreement? If so can you have your attorney contact him?
Only you can answer the question about whether they are too much of a tie to the past? Only you know the level of sadness that you would experience?
My advice is to not let having to deal with your exH affect your decision. Make your decision first than decide how to handle it with your ex... perhaps having someone else go retrieve them for you. Make arrangements for boarding and grooming for the day of your return and have him deliver them there and then you pick them up from boarder/groomer the next day after you settle in.. (with him leaving any of their prized possessions with the boarder...)
just some of my thoughts....
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