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Originally Posted by Liinu
Thank you everyone  I feel slightly better now.
What I really don't understand about my own mind is why am I so afraid of even the first date. In my head it's like "okay, if I go out with this guy, he is going to expect sex out of me"
It's ONE date. I can never see him again if I don't want to. I guess it just feels like going out on one date is already like.. making a commitment to that one person. Which it is SO not.
Ugh. |
This is what I think too…even if it's a guy I want to have sex with too (just not after the first date).
I have what I guess is a first date this weekend. I mean, it's the first time we've hung out one-on-one, but I don't know if it's an official date. And man, am I scared about what he'll do, about what
I'll do.
I think there's way too many guys think girls owe them sex when the guy spends his time/money on her. And guys are confused as to why girls are afraid of them? How do we know if a guy is a decent guy or a guy who is going to guilt us into doing things we don't want to do? Dang, I'm going to stop before this becomes a rant.