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Originally Posted by winnied'c
If I could ask a polite question....do you have a crush on yourself?
When you love yourself first it always shows...this shines through to people around you. You show an air off confidence and love for yourself that makes you attractive to others.
When you act in a tertiary manner in relationship, as with a crush, people will not believe you are seriously interested in engaging them. A crush is not a genuine desire for a relationship, but a fascination or admiration for someone. Don't you want a relationship as opposed to a crush?
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How can I love someone who is so talented and has so much potential, but can't make money to support themselves? That's too lazy and scared to become rich and famous? That doesn't know what to do?
But it doesn't make sense either…many people (including my mom) have no confidence and end up being in relationships without trying at all and look at me and think I'm so sad…failing at both my career and my love life.
And if I express actual interest in someone, they get mad at me. It doesn't get me a relationship—it makes me look like a creeper. And yes I want a relationship.
I'm going to coffee with him this weekend though, so I suppose he doesn't think I'm a creep.