Heather,
I feel so badly that I didn't know that so much of this was happening with you. I've been so buried in my own stuff that I haven't been watching what's happening here very closely. I'm sorry that you're having to deal with so much, and I know how overwhelming it can be.
What I do know about Heather is that she's a strong woman, with a real sense of purpose. A woman who has a desire to be the best person she can be. While these problems in your life may be knocking you down now, I know that you are a survivor. Your kindness and ability to give love so freely is legendary here at these forums. Don't feel guilty for asking for help, more of us (me included) should do that when we need it.
Know that you have my love, support, and admiration. You have set an example of a loving, caring spirit. I guess when I grow up I hope to be a person like you. I believe that in the end, when the dust settles, you will be OK. You're right Heather, take some of your time and focus on you and what you need. And know that me, and I'm sure many others will be here to support and love you. I have complete faith that you will survive this. And if there is ever anything I can do to help, please call on me. I'm honored to have you as a friend, and I want to help if I can.
I will keep you close in my thoughts, and my heart. We'll all get thru this together. I love you bunches!
((((((((((((((((((((Heather))))))))))))))))))))
Greg
"Beauty is truth, truth is beauty - that is all you know on earth, and all you need to know"