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Originally Posted by North_Star
But, it takes a test in order for him to decide if he can love and continue to care for our daughter. The mere thought that he would be more
than willing to break our daughters heart without caring one bit, breaks my heart, makes me cold and angry. It's pathetic for someone to be willing to do that to an infant!
Am I just so cold and angry at him to think that he doesn't deserve to be her father or make any life changes or decisions for her? Is it wrong for me to file for sole custody if we ever split up? Take it all away from him if he would be more than willing to give her up without a second thought?
To top that off, as bad as it sounds, I'm a bit scared that I may be pregnant with our second child....
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It's normal to feel angry and resentful about being put through, all of this. Filing for sole legal and physical custody, will not strip him, of his rights to be a father. He will have a right to visitation, in the eyes of the court. Meaning, you cannot just up and relocate, if you ever decided to, at least not, out of state, nor country.
I agree, about counseling, individual and couples counseling, to try to make an attempt to get to the route of the resentment.
