Melissa81-

I understand the pain you've been though, and what I'm going to say is only because I relate...Sometimes you have to look at what you are spending your energy on and see if it is "worth it".

Is a mediocre T worth the trouble of paperwork and the anger it stirs or are YOU worth more than that? I was once reminded that I was spending too much time focused on people who drove me mad and not enough time on the people I love and love me.

I hope it makes sense and I hope you can find the best support soon.