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Old Nov 07, 2013, 12:14 AM
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Originally Posted by halbrooksprincez3 View Post

For instance, today, he fell asleep after work. Hes been sleeping all day. But, if i were to do it, and not text him or whatnot, he kinda freaks out and wonders what im doing all day.

Now, a little background....

He has ADHD. I'm not entirely sure if that has something to do with it, but I dont get it.

Does it have something to do with it, ?
Coincidentally enough, my exh, used to be rather similar, about freaking out, about me, if I didn't respond, immediately, to texts or phone calls. He has never, to my current knowledge, been diagnosed with ADHD, however, that was something suggested to me, by my talk therapist, during a session, a while back.[Adult ADHD]. My exh, before the finalization of divorce, did have a couple other labels as a prognosis.

Fear of abandonment/rejection, is part of one of those. You're not being there, immediately, to respond, because you fell asleep, sounds like a trigger for him.

Regardless, I can see why, it's frustrating. Had, your husband, ever behaved like this, before exchanging vows?
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