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Originally Posted by Seiya
Okay so I'm meeting him for a coffee this weekend.
with or without you: that is exactly my fear. I don't want to project myself onto him. I haven't totally come to grips with my awkwardness.
Oh well I guess we'll see what happens.
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You'll be fine! Just both of you be as honest as you can be. For example, if you don't know what to say, say this, "I'm sorry I don't know what to say" and smile. This will actually ease him and he will smile to and confess he doesn't know what to say then you can both feel more relaxed and hopefully one of will think of some thing to say. Just need to break the ice. Your both going to be afraid and that should be comforting to each of you. Please let us know how u make out!