No there's nothing wrong with feeling like you're in a rut & wanting something major to happen. But two thoughts: #1, don't be so desperate to get out of your rut that you grab the first bus that comes along and you end up leaping out of the frypan into the fire. Bad choices are easily made when you feel 'desperate'. #2, there may be some 'major' events you don't have much control over, like relationship, getting engaged, etc, but there are many other things in life where you can get out of the rut. The first thing that comes to mind is ... travel. A good long trip - distance, time or both - can sometimes define a new chapter in a life. Or volunteer for something meaningful, and broaden your horizons. Just a few ideas - hope it gives you some food 4 thought !