I just really need to understand the situation...to have boundaries and know how things are going to be. I don't want someone who only wants to see me once a month or less but I don't even know what he wants and I just want to know that.

He said we can talk but then he doesn't say when or anything so I'm confused! I just cannot cope with it but I know he's a good guy and we have a great time together. I at least need some closure but how do I get it if the guy is not willing to talk to me...?

And actually it's just when I ask him something that he seems to have difficulty with...when I let him talk he volunteers information about his feelings but when I ask I just get nothing.