well that's a good question... it takes time, there are going to be reasons you don't trust, and if you get into a new relationship you should probally share those reasons with your new potential relationship!! I mean that's what I would do! If you tell that person the reasons and they shatter your trust yet again, then that's probally not a healthy relationship for you! If they respect your reasons you will know, , they will try to make you feel secure and show you that you can trust them.
but it takes time, have you ever thought maybe going to therapy to work some of these mistrust issues out, maybe so you can recognize the type of reltionships you would want to avoid.?
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