Thanks for all the replies.

I ask because obviously I'm "in" one. Good lord, I say "in" because we're not together, we were, but she still wants to be with me, but she says she wants to work on herself before being together again. I'm really iffy about that because in my past relationship, she wanted to work on things, but nothing ever came of it.

I also can't trust her, she just lies too much, little things, big things, anything.

And like IndieVisible, the cops have been involved in our fights, been arrested, etc.

I can't even give myself a good reason why I want to be with her. Honestly, I hate her more than I love her.