Being a virgin is 100% awesome.

But I think there is alot of over anxiousness about sex on this thread.
All people who want sex out a relationship are not bad people.

In fact most men I know are gentelmenly enough that if they do happen to be dating you and ask if you would like to have sex. You just have to say "no thanks" point made....There really just happy to be with you.
We don't have to think of everyone as scary.