I agree. However, I would add that most media condition men into thinking that a certain size is the most desireable.

I would thing that most men struggle with how a person makes him feel (safe, loved, accepted, etc) versus how she looks.

Media attacks us from everywhere. Then women who are in the so called preferred body style dress incredibly immodestly or allow themselves to be degraded with nude pictures. Like that helps men win the battle!

I struggle with it, but the long a short of it - who would I rather spend the rest of my life with - a women who fits what mainstream calls beatiful or what I consider beautiful inside and out.

I would admit I probably wouldn't be at this point in my life had I not been so close to someone who was suffering from in eating disorder.