He is lazy and exploitive and doesn't care at all how you feel . This couch potatoe has made you into a slave. And you will continue to be exploited and treated unfairly as long as you allow it .In my opinion you two need an objective councilor who can divide up the tasks in a fair manner that you both find acceptable . If hubby is still unwilling to do his fair share , give away the couch and the TV and throw out both him and his beer and his sexist attitude,