I'm sorry you have problems with your parents too. I understand. My dad will tell me constantly how he doesn't understand it or my self-harming. To him if he can't understand it.. its not real. He was really upset when he found out about my sexuality as if it affected him when it really doesn't.

I agree we should decide who we are and its not up to them. I wish they would treat the situation differently but I can't change who I am. It's not like I chose my sexuality and I definetly can't just change it.

I hate that they invaded my privacy that way but its not the first time. It happens all the time. They think I'm going to go do something stupid with some boy and end up pregnant, or get into drugs and drinking like they did when they were younger.

But thankyou and best of luck to you too.