He is not awful,I mean he can be charming and convincing,he works hard.i guess he was brought up in a family where everyone wants to be dominant .we have always lived with his parents and he was babied maybe:things has to be ready when he is home from work ,table set to go,etc..I suppose living together did not give us a chance to really get close .,he can and will not go against parent's wishes .even now his parents direct whom we may communicate . My parents and brother are not on their list...just Really hurts time to time.he wants to be happy too ,do what am I doing wrong?i need to fix this somehow