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Originally Posted by cboxpalace
It sounds like this is a two way street. It's not you, and it's not him, it's both of you together. The relationship as a whole is dysfunctional. It sounds as if there's some dependency issues going on with the both of you.
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Exactly this. Still, you have a responsibility for your own behaviour and if you recognise that what you're doing isn't good it's down to you to try and improve what's going on. This might be better achieved outside of a relationship but if you're determined to work through your problems together couples therapy may be a good idea.
My personal view is that relationships shouldn't define people, it's nice to have someone in your life but I've never seen any good come from those who get
too involved with each other.
I hope you reach a solution.