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Originally Posted by technigal
Danica, you mention this is an online boyfriend. Have you ever met? The reason I ask is that I know what it is like to fall in love with who you think the person is and not with who they really are. Twenty years ago I met someone online. I thought we were perfect together even the first time we met (if a safe environment) was great, then reality came crashing down. He was not the man I thought he was, he had never lied to me but I put him on a pedestal that was unrealistic. I was crushed. It was actually at this time when I was first diagnosed with depression.
What I am trying to say is be careful.
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hello
thank you
no we have never met ,I live in UK ,he lives in Scotland and I have severe social anxiety and rarely leave the house ,I understand what you mean though ,I have heard people before say they thought they had the perfect relationship online but when they eventually met the person wasn't as they thought at all
I have also heard however of people who met online then eventually met in RL and were married and some even had children
Ive known him online for 3 years but started talking to him daily ,fell in love with him a year ago
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and thanks so much everyone who replied xxxxxxxxxxx