My own action to leave my H has been the initiation of the better life.....before that time we all blamed my depression & anxiety on the loss of my engineering career & I had pdoc's & T's who didn't see it either.

I now have a wonderful psychologist & a wonderful DBT group leader who have helped me more over the last 2 years than I have ever experienced since 1994.

I still struggle with issues....but I have the help working through them like I never had before.....along with the freedom away from the bad marriage....it's nice to feel so much improvement over the last 6 years...& it's amazing that it's even noticed by others....even though I came here knowing absolutely no one.....I have grown & am still growing even at the age of 60......it's nice to feel there really is hope.