This impulse to 'please' others stems from when we
were children and tried to 'please' our parents so that they 'might' love or give affection to us. NOW,
in present time,we make the people around us into
SURROGATE PARENTS by pleasing them,just as
we did in childhood. It is a powerful impulse;even
after I seen it in black+white and understood it, I
was STILL doing it! The child was still looking
for love and affection.
But this is a degrading way to
live. I know this,now that I do NOT do it,and can
look at it from a wiser perspective.People pick up on it and treat us accordingly (like ****)! If you need anymore info on this message me,I'll help all
I can.
Blessings,
BLUEDOVE