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Old Nov 08, 2013, 08:06 PM
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Originally Posted by Ivan4567 View Post
I am thinking that the only explanation is that she is not as sexually attracted to me as she was with the other guys she has been with.
Whoa! Why are you putting yourself down like that? I can think of 3-4 other reasons/explanations.

It is not about sex at all but about risk taking (not about you at all but about her).

She had a bad experience (got caught when there was no way she could be :-)

She is older and has changed her mind about some of her past behaviors.

She did not enjoy doing those behaviors but felt forced to but trusts you and knows you will not force her (or leave her; the old high school "have sex with me or we're through"/"If you loved me you would have sex with me" arguments)
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