Hey AngstyLady,

When you learn not to care please teach me, it is a big add on to my depression. I can relate completely... The being to nice, the people pleaser. I've been the "good child" "too innocent" "boring" even. I just don't find what most people find enjoyable and because im calm I'm "too relaxed" but if they only knew. I don't have acne but i waa born without my right hand, dating, social life, confidence its all been a struggle for me. But i would never change my "niceness" despite my insecurities I refuse to ever be damaged enough to be unkind, because i know the effects of the outcome. Don't change the good about you, own it. Yoy already seem like an awesome person to me.