MdngtRain- I hope that's why she shared that she was frustrated. It wasn't exactly that she volunteered the information. I brought up that I thought she was annoyed, and then she asked if I thought that there was something else she could have been feeling. When I said frustrated, she confirmed it. I think she kind of had to be honest. Though I guess she could have avoided the question. Maybe she is hoping that this will bring a change when nothing else has though. I will admit that I am more motivated to try harder instead of letting myself continue the same habits. Overall this could be a good thing. I know exactly what you mean about ignoring the kindness. It's harder to believe, so the negative has a greater emotional impact. Therapy has been so hard lately. Thank you so much for your help!