thanks both for your responses.

I was just unsure as to what I was feeling or if I was being immature in my situation. This girl and I have had a weird friendship for about a year. We dated for a while, then she broke things off. She began juggling me and this other guy for a while, then chose the other guy. Aside from the pain of being dumped, I've had to endure a lot of emotional turmoil brought on by her insensitive attitude towards me.

The last thing she did to me was misslead me for about a month into believing she wanted a relationship. She didn't, and denide that she ever mislead me. A lot of people thought she did, despite that she denide it. Eitherway, I still have lingering feelings for her so I knew this would happen again if I didn't do something. So, I took something she had given me, something symbolic to me, put it in a bag and returned it to her. She was hurt that I had returned the present but the message was clear that I was trying to forget about her and that she could no longer use me when ever it was good for her.

The next day I told her that it would be best for the both of us if we didn't talk outside of work. Whenever I told her it was hard for me to be her friend, her response would always be "suck it up" or "I think it's pathetic and immature that you can't be my friend just because I don't want a relationship with you!" Hurtful words I'd rather not hear again.