I had a T who was neutral. Hate it and never trusted her, never believed she cared, i felt she was cold. I was just shut down the while time.
I need to have emotions mirrored to me at times, i need to know my t cares enough to hve any sort of emotion about me or my situation. And this T only volunteered how she was feeling once asked by the client which i think is good practice.
Also i think that it has spurred you on to reach out a bit and risk connecting with her which is a good thing. To have let you continue to stay in your safe protected little huddle and not say a word about it would have been wrong in my opinion.