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Originally Posted by gayleggg
With your history, I'm not surprised you can't trust enough to get close to someone. Have you had counseling for these abuse issues? If not, I think I would start with counseling. It really helps us get past, past hurts. I was raped when I was 17, it took counseling before I stopped hating men.
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If you dont mind me asking, What things did you do to get over hating men? I have the same issue, every men in my life that I looked up too did things that they shouldn't of done and now because of it I freak out around men and don't let them close because I believe they all have an interior motive.
My biggest fear though is that to get over my fear, I will have to face it, which will involve being around men. I just can't see how doing that would make me feel less scared.