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Originally Posted by Lonely_90
I'm sorry this happened to you, it's sad that we send our kids to school and we expect them to be safe, and awful things like this happen. I also had boys who would touch me inappropriately. In 8th grade I had a "boyfriend" he would try to kiss me on the bed and he would touch me, I eventually got so uncomfortable I told my mom, who of course told the school, I feel really guilty because he was my "boyfriend" even though I didn't like him very much. Then when I was 14 I started working at mcdonalds, there was a manager who would touch me, he would come behind me and put his hands in my pants or hold my boobs, he did this to several other girls as well, none of us knew what to do since he would just walk away after.
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One of them actually begged me to be his boyfriend once when we were a few years younger and I said yes for like a day...few years later and this goes on. I was scared to sit on the back of the bus with them..but knew I'd be ridiculed if I didn't since I was in 8th grade (eldest kids got the back of the bus). The touching was bad enough but then the next day they'd curse at me and tell me I was ugly..it got me so messed up. Even now I cringe.
I'm sorry someone hurt you as well, I don't know why young boys can be this way..
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Allie
Diagnosed: Generalized Anxiety Disorder & Obsessive Compulsive Disoder. Previous: Borderline Personality Disorder.
I no longer qualify for a diagnosis of Borderline Personality Disorder, but there will always be my borderline traits that I struggle with especially during times of great stress.
I've been working passionately as a therapist since December 2016
