CantExplain- Agreed, therapy relationships are tough. I feel like I'm still learning how to come to terms with it.

Autumn Skies-I'm sorry to hear about the environment that you grew up in. I can see how this would cause the need to change for others. I did not have an enmeshing environment, though I did grow up with a father that was not accepting, and often shamed me. So I'm sure this has influenced it. Thank you, I hope you're right and that it will lead to positive change. I'll keep everyone updated!