Might I suggest you call the local domestic violence hotline? They offer assistance and a safe place to stay when leaving an abusive relationship. Will also help get you re-established with clothes, food, etc. What you are exposing you child to is abusive. Children learn from example and I know you're thinking about it, but is this what you want your child to learn? That's it's okay to hit women, abuse them verbally, emotionally, physically? I don't think so or you wouldn't've written here.
Please get out as soon as you can. The local domestic violence center may even come and pick you up and help you get away.

((((mom3)))