Yes, 2 kids and 2 step kids (I'm the step father, step son lives with me full time) otherwise I would probably have gone full no contact and moved on with my life.

I'd love to discuss a time limit with her but my therapist says all that'll do is pressure her and most likely drive her away or push her into coming back before she's ready.

I guess what I'm hearing is it's too soon to tell. That's good enough for now I guess.

Thanks for the feedback, appreciated.