do you watch Super Nanny? okiedokie, it's your home, your car, your life, your heart, your money and she doesn't respect you. why are you doing all of this for her? how old is she? isn't she in her 20s?

i hate to be so blunt, but it won't be better if you continue enabling her disrespect. she's got it made and you're paying for all of it. money and emotionally. if she's old enough to have an apartment, she's old enough to support herself.

your pain is so apparent. please seek some help and change the patterns of your relationship with her. love, pat