I have read yr f problem....although U have divorced, It is not yr fault at all, almost every person has communication skills naturally, but some wiser? has extra skills like that they show how second person or third person is wrong, they always pinpoint you on yr words sentences and meanings and don't left a single chance to dominate u, U have to preserve confidence that u r not wrong at all, better u have to read good books which will enhance ur skills, communication class is not beneficial.... T s